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Intimacy coaching is a space to explore, honor, and receive the gifts of your own desire - no matter what phase of life you’re in.
A B O U T I N T I M A C Y C O A C H I N G
Practice makes erotic.
You cannot read a book to learn how to ride a bike - or how to have great sex. But modern women have not been given much experiential guidance when it comes to opening the erotic self. So many of us have been held back or misled.
Your culture did not teach you to know or love your desires.
Many women grew up in environments where the rhythms of feminine desire were invisible, ignored, or worse. Puritanical thinking still permeates our culture, a far cry from the more natural conversations that women would have with their mothers, aunts, and other community members while being out among nature and seeing the inevitable sexual dance that brought life to the fields and farms.
Let’s explore:
Understanding Yourself and Your Desires
Unearth your core desires
Release outdated scripts and identities
Get in touch with your primal body
Explore hidden aspects of your sexuality (fantasies, kink, BDSM, etc.)
Enhancing Communication and Connection
Learn how to ask for what you want
Speak boundaries and consent with skill
Gain tools for healthy communication and repair
Overcoming Challenges
Shed shame and inhibition
Address sexual challenges: low desire/libido, difficulty with orgasm, painful sex, and more
Work through sex and intimacy challenges during relationship changes, divorce, perimenopause, etc.
Making it HOT
Play more, worry less
Date and flirt your way
Create the relationship structures that work best for you
You are your primary lover.
Open to the fullness of your desires, sensuality, and power. This is the first and last step to a fulfilling erotic life.
METHOD
T H E E R O T I C S E N S E S A P P R O A C H
Listening with Compassion
Every coaching session begins with empathetic listening to understand where you’re at. Beth cares deeply about understanding your unique needs and goals, and tailors sessions to meet you there. Her approach is compassionate and non-judgmental, creating a safe and playful space for your exploration. This approach welcomes your authentic erotic self into the session, instills confidence in your ability to achieve your desired outcomes, and results in a rich experience helping you create greater intimacy and fulfillment in your relationships. Learn More About Beth.
Transforming Through Pleasure
The unique method taught at the Somatica Institute leverages the latest neuroscience research to support the way people learn to go beyond talk-based interactions. It includes training in real-time interactions, support, guidance, and feedback. This experiential practice uses relationship tools, such as embodied empathy, decision-making, and practicing sensuality and two-way relating, to help clients learn how to experience authentic intimacy. Want to see a Somatic coaching session in action?
During and after sessions, you receive actionable steps chosen specifically for your needs that integrate what you experience in the session into your life. This can include awareness exercises and intimacy-building techniques that promote deeper connections and more satisfying experiences for your erotic life.
Healing and Unleashing Your Buried Erotic Self
What will coaching
teach you to do?
BE SEEN
BY HUNGRY EYES
TOUCHED
BY CARING HANDS
FELT
BY AN EAGER PARTNER
OUTCOMES
Be Seen by
Hungry Eyes
You are not just body, you are not your shame. Find the root of these internal lies, learn to integrate them, and to see the fiery truth—sparking an irresistible light behind your eyes. Then see how your partners eyes look back with the flame of honest desire.
Be Touched by
Caring Hands
Your physical needs matter. It is vital to learn how to ask for what you want, and to lovingly inspire your partner’s touch. Intimacy coaching trains you to receive from a balanced center, and to stop playing timid games of unspoken desires. Learn to ask for and receive what you need.
Be Felt by an
Eager Partner
The more intensely you feel yourself, the more he will be drawn to you. Go beyond the tips and tricks that leave you wondering if “you’re doing it right.” Intimacy coaching teaches you to stop performing, and how to be felt as an erotic force of nature.
WHAT DOES YOUR TAGLINE MEAN?
“Let’s let you out.”
This short phrase embodies the idea of releasing your true, authentic erotic self. It is about unburying the parts of yourself that have been hidden or repressed, and freeing you from shame, guilt, and the expectations that have slowly coiled around you since you were a child. You’re not alone, there is a path and a process to the erotic life of your dreams.
"Shame cannot survive being spoken. It cannot survive empathy."
— B R E N E B R O W N
Through your process of release and erotic liberation, you will experience greater freedom, pleasure, and fulfillment in all aspects of your life, not just the bedroom. Intimacy coaching provides a safe and playful space for your journey of self-discovery and transformation. Let’s let you out.
“Life is so damn short. For fuck’s sake, just do what makes you happy.”
— B I L L M U R R A Y
The animal body is to be harnessed, not repressed.
FAQS
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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Our sessions are co-created based on the material you bring in. Through discussion, we’ll determine what you want more of, which areas of your relationships are a struggle, and what’s holding you back.
Then we practice in real-time! Exercises can include: visualizations, energetic explorations, role-playing (example: going on a date), rehearsing (example: having an emotional conversation with a partner), two-way touch, or other experiential interactions.
While we practice amplifying erotic energy, intercourse or other sexual acts are not part of Erotic Senses sessions.
Sessions are held virtually on Zoom, or in person upon approval.
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In traditional therapy models, the client/practitioner relationship is one-way, talk-based, and doesn’t typically include sexuality.
In Erotic Senses sessions, we enter a relational laboratory. Together, we’ll practice the awareness and skills needed to develop honest, genuine, and sexually satisfying relationships.
As long as consent is given, skill-building exercises can include two-way touch. I will share my honest reflections, feelings, and responses and encourage you to do the same.
Our work will go beyond what’s possible with therapy - instead of theory and analysis, we will experience and play!
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In session, touch can go both ways (with mutual consent). Clothing stays on.
This might include holding, snuggling, touch training or body-to-body contact.
Sessions will not include having sex, genital stimulation, or nudity. Sex coaching is not sex therapy or sex work.
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Throughout our work together, you’ll develop skills that liberate erotic energy and deepen your intimate relationship(s).
These can include:
-Setting boundaries with clarity and kindness
-Asking for consent in ways that build erotic heat
-Attuning to your embodied sensations, desires, and impulses; knowing your YES and your NO
-Attuning to a partner’s cues and subtle signals, and responding in ways that deepen connection
-Releasing shame around sexual desire and performance
-Building confidence in approaching, dating, and relating to female partners
-Knowing what you want sexually and how to ask for it
-Developing secure attachments
-Connecting to your emotions and expressing them in healthy ways
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I do! When working with couples, I prefer to see each partner separately at the beginning of our work together. Contact me at beth@eroticsenses.co to schedule.
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A free consultation. I want you to get to know me, and I need to get to know you. Intimacy coaching is intensely delicate, if we’re a fit we’ll know it. If we’re not, we’ll know it. Click here to schedule a consultation.
