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Erotic Reclamation Coaching
1:1 Private Mentorship for Men Who Want to Come Fully Alive
A B O U T I N T I M A C Y C O A C H I N G
Practice makes erotic.
You’re smart. You’re successful. You’ve got most of life handled.
But inside, there’s something missing. A spark; a sense of freedom; a deep electric connection - to yourself, to women, to your desires.
Maybe sex has become stressful or non-existent.
Maybe you’re trying to get it right.
Maybe you’ve been the “good guy” for too long - and it’s left you feeling invisible, resentful, or just numb.
You want more. More passion. More confidence. More connection.
More of you - raw, alive, turned on.
You’re in the right place.
Erotic Reclamation Coaching is a 1:1 space for men ready to stop overthinking, start feeling, and claim the sex life and selfhood they’ve always wanted.
We work with everything that stands in your way:
Sexless relationships
Performance anxiety
Shame around your desires or past
Struggling to understand your female partner
Feeling like you’re always giving, never getting
The ache of wanting real intimacy, not just surface-level pleasure
Sexual issues like erectile dysfunction (ED) and premature ejaculation (PE)
The commodification of the erotic has failed to give you what you need.
Learning about sex by watching porn is like learning about nature by watching the Lion King.
Intimacy coaching brings you face-to-face with the roaring erotic, not a cartoon song-and-dance of it.
METHOD
T H E E R O T I C S E N S E S A P P R O A C H
This is not another strategy
This is a return to your truth. We go deep. We move slowly. We feel everything. Together, we peel back the masks and rediscover the wild, grounded, confident man inside you. Through connected conversations and real-time practice, you’ll get the feedback you need from an open, confident, erotically charged woman.
Transforming Through Pleasure
The unique method taught at the Somatica Institute leverages the latest neuroscience research to support the way people learn to go beyond talk-based interactions. It includes training in real-time interactions, support, guidance, and feedback. This experiential practice uses relationship tools, such as embodied empathy, decision-making, and practicing sensuality and two-way relating, to help clients learn how to experience authentic intimacy. Want to see a Somatic coaching session in action?
In our work together, you will:
Get out of your head and into your body
Uncover and embrace your true desires
Learn to relate with women with clarity, confidence, and depth
Navigate conflict and rejection without collapsing
Reignite your turn-on and access new levels of erotic energy
Feel powerful in your truth, no longer ashamed or small
Healing and Unleashing Your Buried Erotic Self
What will coaching
teach you to do?
BE SEEN
BY HUNGRY EYES
TOUCHED
BY CARING HANDS
FELT
BY AN EAGER PARTNER
OUTCOMES
Be Seen by
Hungry Eyes
You are not your nervousness, you are not your performance anxiety, you are not your shame. Find the root of these internal lies, learn to integrate them, and to see the fiery truth—sparking an irresistible light behind your eyes. Then see how her eyes look back at you.
Be Touched by
Caring Hands
Your physical needs matter. It is vital to learn how to ask for what you want, and to lovingly inspire your partner’s touch. Intimacy coaching trains you to receive from a balanced center, and to stop playing timid games of unspoken desires. Learn to ask for and receive what you need.
Be Felt by an
Eager Partner
Giving your partner what she wants is not an equation to be solved, it is a dance. Go beyond the tips and tricks that leave you wondering if you “did it wrong.” Intimacy coaching teaches you to stop doing tricks, and how to be felt as an erotic force of nature.
WHAT DOES YOUR TAGLINE MEAN?
“Let’s let you out.”
This short phrase embodies the idea of releasing your true, authentic erotic self. It is about unburying the parts of yourself that have been hidden or repressed, and freeing you from shame, guilt, and the expectations that have slowly coiled around you since you were a boy. You’re not alone, there is a path and a process to the erotic life of your dreams.
"Shame cannot survive being spoken. It cannot survive empathy"
— B R E N E B R O W N
Through your process of release and erotic liberation, you will experience greater freedom, pleasure, and fulfillment in all aspects of your life, not just the bedroom. Intimacy coaching provides a safe and playful space for your journey of self-discovery and transformation. Let’s let you out.
“Life is so damn short. For fuck’s sake, just do what makes you happy.”
— B I L L M U R R A Y
The animal body is to be harnessed, not repressed.
FAQS
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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Our sessions are co-created based on the material you bring in. Through discussion, we’ll determine what you want more of, which areas of your relationships are a struggle, and what’s holding you back.
Then we practice in real-time! Exercises can include: visualizations, energetic explorations, role-playing (example: going on a date), rehearsing (example: having an emotional conversation with a partner), two-way touch, or other experiential interactions.
While we practice amplifying erotic energy, intercourse or other sexual acts are not part of Erotic Senses sessions.
Sessions are held virtually on Zoom, or in person upon approval.
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In traditional therapy models, the client/practitioner relationship is one-way, talk-based, and doesn’t typically include sexuality.
In Erotic Senses sessions, we enter a relational laboratory. Together, we’ll practice the awareness and skills needed to develop honest, genuine, and sexually satisfying relationships.
As long as consent is given, skill-building exercises can include two-way touch. I will share my honest reflections, feelings, and responses and encourage you to do the same.
Our work will go beyond what’s possible with therapy - instead of theory and analysis, we will experience and play!
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In session, touch can go both ways (with mutual consent). Clothing stays on.
This might include holding, snuggling, touch training or body-to-body contact.
Sessions will not include having sex, genital stimulation, or nudity. Sex coaching is not sex therapy or sex work.
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Throughout our work together, you’ll develop skills that liberate erotic energy and deepen your intimate relationship(s).
These can include:
-Setting boundaries with clarity and kindness
-Asking for consent in ways that build erotic heat
-Attuning to your embodied sensations, desires, and impulses; knowing your YES and your NO
-Attuning to a partner’s cues and subtle signals, and responding in ways that deepen connection
-Releasing shame around sexual desire and performance
-Building confidence in approaching, dating, and relating to female partners
-Knowing what you want sexually and how to ask for it
-Developing secure attachments
-Connecting to your emotions and expressing them in healthy ways
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I work with women or couples if asked. When working with couples, I prefer to also see each partner separately at the beginning of our work together. Contact me at beth@eroticsenses.co to schedule.
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A free consultation. I want you to get to know me, and I need to get to know you. Intimacy coaching is intensely delicate, if we’re a fit we’ll know it. If we’re not, we’ll know it. Click here to schedule a consultation.
